Anger is a condition in which the tongue works faster than the mind.
You can't change the past, but you can ruin the present by worrying over the future.
Love ......and you shall be loved.
God always gives His best to those who leave the choice with Him.
All people smile in the same language.
A hug is a great gift..one size fits all. It can be given for any occasion and it's easy to exchange.
Everyone needs to be loved...especially when they do not deserve it.
The real measure of a man's wealth is what he has invested in eternity.
Everything has beauty but not everyone sees it.
It's important for parents to live the same things they teach.
If you fill your heart with regrets of yesterday and the worries of tomorrow, you have no today to be thankful for.
Happy memories never wear out.... relive them as often as you want.
Home is the place where we grumble the most, but are often treated the best.
Man looks at outward appearance but the Lord looks within.
The choice you make today will usually affect tomorrow.
Take time to laugh for it is the music of the soul.
If anyone speaks badly of you, live so none will believe it.
Patience is the ability to idle your motor when you feel like stripping your gears.
Love is strengthened by working through conflicts together.
The best thing parents can do for their children is to love each other.
Harsh words break no bones but they do break hearts.
To get out of a difficulty, one usually must go through it.
We take for granted the things that we should be giving thanks for.
Love is the only thing that can be divided without being diminished.
Happiness is enhanced by others but does not depend upon others.
You are richer today if you have laughed, given or forgiven.
For every minute you are angry with someone, you lose 60 seconds of happiness that you can never get back.
Do what you can, for who you can, with what you have, and where you are.
The best gifts to give :
To your friend - loyalty
To your enemy - forgiveness;
To your boss - service;
To a child - a good example;
To your parents - gratitude and devotion;
Friday, November 6, 2009
Good Morning ...well there is nothing good about it except its FriDay
ONLY REASON I AM HAPPY IS BECAUSE ITS friday
Thursday, November 5, 2009
G.OO.D BY...YE L..O..VE...
i have decided that Love is not for me , so from now on i am just going to be my self , do what i love and just happy
its been a while...well more like months
Hi Good People
its been months without any posts on my side
i have decided to start blogging again, just giving it another try
anywho been out of action for a while , what happened , life happened
i decided that its time to grow up, and live life for God and for myself
for a long time i needed other poeple's approval to be me, to live my life
i needed to be like
now i just need to be me
you know how the saying goes " it is better to be hated for who you are, than be loved for something that you not"
its time to live
yes Life starts at 24.
its been months without any posts on my side
i have decided to start blogging again, just giving it another try
anywho been out of action for a while , what happened , life happened
i decided that its time to grow up, and live life for God and for myself
for a long time i needed other poeple's approval to be me, to live my life
i needed to be like
now i just need to be me
you know how the saying goes " it is better to be hated for who you are, than be loved for something that you not"
its time to live
yes Life starts at 24.
Wednesday, April 8, 2009
thoughts on Life
Life is not a race, do not compete with it, It’s a
journey and undertake safely.
You only live once-but if you work and make it to
LIVE right, once is enough.
The bond that links your true family is not one of
the blood, but of respect and joy in each others
life. Rarely do members of one family grow up under the
same roof mainly for reasons of “Money & Matrimony.
“Do good, and leave behind you, a monument of virtue
that the storms of time can never destroy.
Write your name in kindness, love, and mercy on the
hearts of thousands you come in contact with year by
year, and you will never be forgotten. Your name and
your good deeds will shine as the stars of heaven. ”
“.Whatever I say is like water, and those by genius
are like champagne- Incidentally every one certainly
drinks water.”
.”There is nothing you cannot be,
There is nothing you cannot do,
And there is nothing you cannot achieve,
All you have to have is “BELIEVE IN YOU.”
.” Ignorance, absence of discipline and disobedience
are the causes of disappointments and stress in
life .Keep appointments in life and not
disappointments.”
.” Time is illusion’s trickery. Realise the timeless
eternal truth of this reality- i.e. Why, When Indians have breakfast, Aussies have lunch & Americans have dinner.-Value time, use it judiciously and purposefully.”
.” If there are two perfections, there is limitation.
Therefore perfection has to be only one-
Why not it be YOU?”
” If you try you will never MAKE IT, if you do, you
will always MAKE IT. Therefore do it and MAKE all good
things happen in your life.”
.” Life is beautiful; Living is a gift and make best
use of the beauty and the gift every Moment of your life.”
“Think of me at my best, if I have done it
for you, for ever.”
“Learn to live diligently with dignity, decency,
divinity, dedication and decorum to fulfill and attain
your mission of life’s vision.”
.” Do things rightfully, gracefully, confidently &
articulately, and to end up successfully- this will
gratify many and astonish the rest.”
.” You have to see the INVISIBLE to do the
IMPOSSIBLE and it is POSSIBLE.”
” Make excellence a habit and not an act.”
“If you are a great believer of Luck, you have to
work hard for it, or else it will turnout to be Muck.”
.” If you know the “ART OF LOVING” no body needs to
teach you “ART OF LIVING”.
.”It is dangerous to be right when governing is
wrong.”
“Many things I have not learned from my life’s
experience can now be learned from my
Son and ‘am at it.”
“Trying is the first step towards the failure &
doing is the first step towards Success. Keep doing.”
“Learn to tell truth so that you don’t have to
remember anything
journey and undertake safely.
You only live once-but if you work and make it to
LIVE right, once is enough.
The bond that links your true family is not one of
the blood, but of respect and joy in each others
life. Rarely do members of one family grow up under the
same roof mainly for reasons of “Money & Matrimony.
“Do good, and leave behind you, a monument of virtue
that the storms of time can never destroy.
Write your name in kindness, love, and mercy on the
hearts of thousands you come in contact with year by
year, and you will never be forgotten. Your name and
your good deeds will shine as the stars of heaven. ”
“.Whatever I say is like water, and those by genius
are like champagne- Incidentally every one certainly
drinks water.”
.”There is nothing you cannot be,
There is nothing you cannot do,
And there is nothing you cannot achieve,
All you have to have is “BELIEVE IN YOU.”
.” Ignorance, absence of discipline and disobedience
are the causes of disappointments and stress in
life .Keep appointments in life and not
disappointments.”
.” Time is illusion’s trickery. Realise the timeless
eternal truth of this reality- i.e. Why, When Indians have breakfast, Aussies have lunch & Americans have dinner.-Value time, use it judiciously and purposefully.”
.” If there are two perfections, there is limitation.
Therefore perfection has to be only one-
Why not it be YOU?”
” If you try you will never MAKE IT, if you do, you
will always MAKE IT. Therefore do it and MAKE all good
things happen in your life.”
.” Life is beautiful; Living is a gift and make best
use of the beauty and the gift every Moment of your life.”
“Think of me at my best, if I have done it
for you, for ever.”
“Learn to live diligently with dignity, decency,
divinity, dedication and decorum to fulfill and attain
your mission of life’s vision.”
.” Do things rightfully, gracefully, confidently &
articulately, and to end up successfully- this will
gratify many and astonish the rest.”
.” You have to see the INVISIBLE to do the
IMPOSSIBLE and it is POSSIBLE.”
” Make excellence a habit and not an act.”
“If you are a great believer of Luck, you have to
work hard for it, or else it will turnout to be Muck.”
.” If you know the “ART OF LOVING” no body needs to
teach you “ART OF LIVING”.
.”It is dangerous to be right when governing is
wrong.”
“Many things I have not learned from my life’s
experience can now be learned from my
Son and ‘am at it.”
“Trying is the first step towards the failure &
doing is the first step towards Success. Keep doing.”
“Learn to tell truth so that you don’t have to
remember anything
SPICE IT UP
Well i am looking for new ideas for spicing up my blog and lets just say
PREPARE TO BE DAZZLED BY THE NEW LIFE, LOVE AND EVERYTHING ELSE, THAT YOU ARE ABOUT TO SEE
ENJOY
PREPARE TO BE DAZZLED BY THE NEW LIFE, LOVE AND EVERYTHING ELSE, THAT YOU ARE ABOUT TO SEE
ENJOY
UPDATE .....REALLY TIRED
Ok, so this week i have had highs and lows and not really sure if things are going to improve, i mean today is Wednesday but i guess the only good thing that i am looking forward to is the long weekend, that i cant wait for
and another thing havent spoken to my friend Siphiwe in a while i really miss him u know , one of the few friends who make a difference in my life
hope i speak to him really soon
CANT WAIT FOR THE LONG WEEKEND
and another thing havent spoken to my friend Siphiwe in a while i really miss him u know , one of the few friends who make a difference in my life
hope i speak to him really soon
CANT WAIT FOR THE LONG WEEKEND
Monday, March 30, 2009
Life in General
ok so today is Monday .....
not a very good day ......
anyway i wa reading the true love issue for April, its really interesting , there's an article in there that talks about the healing process, which is what i need to do
the article talks about how moving from a dark places to the light is a personal process from my understanding i guess it means that you have to want to heal in order to move on , " This is about looking at the secret places, the silent places, the wounded places, the crying places within you.if you are ready to acknowledge and embrace them, then you can heal" this really touched me and i realised that everything is up to me, that i have the power to make the change that i want to see in my life , i just have to want it bad enough and want to do the work.
not a very good day ......
anyway i wa reading the true love issue for April, its really interesting , there's an article in there that talks about the healing process, which is what i need to do
the article talks about how moving from a dark places to the light is a personal process from my understanding i guess it means that you have to want to heal in order to move on , " This is about looking at the secret places, the silent places, the wounded places, the crying places within you.if you are ready to acknowledge and embrace them, then you can heal" this really touched me and i realised that everything is up to me, that i have the power to make the change that i want to see in my life , i just have to want it bad enough and want to do the work.
Friday, March 27, 2009
wHat I tHanK GoD fOr.........
1. A place to sleep and stay warm.
2. Food to eat.
3. A mind to think.
4. A heart to feel.
5. A body that is healthy and functioning.
6. A strong spirit.
7. The love of family and friends.
8. Money in the bank.
9. Many hobbies and interests that keep me engaged and connected.
10. The ability to teach and learn.
11. Reliable transportation.
12. The ability to give life.
13. Breath, sight, and hearing.
14. I can speak and read
MISTAKES
I have made mistakes in my life
I've let people take advantage of me
and I've expected way less than what i deserve
but i have learned from my bad choices and
even though there are some things i can never
get back and people who will never be sorry
i know better next time and wont settle for anything
less than what i deserve
I've let people take advantage of me
and I've expected way less than what i deserve
but i have learned from my bad choices and
even though there are some things i can never
get back and people who will never be sorry
i know better next time and wont settle for anything
less than what i deserve
ITS BEEN A WHILE
Well its weekend, i am so excited im really tired
havent posted in a while, dont know guess i have been lazy lately
procrastination you know , i always say i am going to get to it but i never do anyway ............
Monday, March 9, 2009
UPDATE
i havent posted in a while, things have been hectic but i am holding on for dear life
in the midst of all i remain positive , hoping that things will get better.My other problem, people in my life and people i know havent really showed me mercy these days you know , so i dont know, i am starting to think that its me, but that little thing that i read somewhere that says , sometimes majority means all the fools are on one side it actually gives me hope that theres nothing wrong with me its just everyone's thinking might be messed up at the moment,yesterday heard some very disappointing news about someone that i really like and was starting to trust but than again hence the saying, love them all but trust no one came to mind.>
in the midst of all i remain positive , hoping that things will get better.My other problem, people in my life and people i know havent really showed me mercy these days you know , so i dont know, i am starting to think that its me, but that little thing that i read somewhere that says , sometimes majority means all the fools are on one side it actually gives me hope that theres nothing wrong with me its just everyone's thinking might be messed up at the moment,yesterday heard some very disappointing news about someone that i really like and was starting to trust but than again hence the saying, love them all but trust no one came to mind.>
Monday, February 23, 2009
BEAUTIFUL MOVIE
on Saturday , i watched a movie , Madea's Family Reunion, its a fabulous movie about family, friendship, love, really beautiful, anyway in this movie there is this woman Vanessa who has never really known what true love is until she meets this guy who is a bus driver, and he loves her more than life itself as he says anyway at the end of the movie they get married because she has learn how to love completely and she has this ,man and God to thank for this but what captivated me was the wedding vowels that he said to her, something like this :
i love you beyond my heart
i love you with my soul
and thats a place where only you and God dwell
something to that effect and i thought wow thats beautiful, if only i can find love like that, true love , does it exist though
i love you beyond my heart
i love you with my soul
and thats a place where only you and God dwell
something to that effect and i thought wow thats beautiful, if only i can find love like that, true love , does it exist though
Thursday, February 19, 2009
A little something on love
Just a little something on love that i came across
Love Means Believing In Someone
Love takes time. It needs a history of giving and receiving, laughing and crying...
Love never promises instant gratification, only ultimate fulfillment.
Love means believing in someone, in something. It supposes a willingness to struggle, to work, to suffer, and to rejoice.
It belongs to only those who can reach beyond themselves; to whom giving is more important than receiving.
Love is doing everything you can to help others build whatever dreams they have.
Love involves much careful and active listening. It is doing whatever needs to be done, and saving whatever will promote others' happiness, security and well-being.
Sometimes love hurts.
Love is a constant journey to what others need. It must be attentive, caring and open, both to what others say and to what others cannot say.
Love says no with empathy and great compassion.
Love is firm, but when needed it must be tender.
When others have tried and failed, love is the hand in your moments of discouragement and disappointment.
Love is reliable.
Love Means Believing In Someone
Love takes time. It needs a history of giving and receiving, laughing and crying...
Love never promises instant gratification, only ultimate fulfillment.
Love means believing in someone, in something. It supposes a willingness to struggle, to work, to suffer, and to rejoice.
It belongs to only those who can reach beyond themselves; to whom giving is more important than receiving.
Love is doing everything you can to help others build whatever dreams they have.
Love involves much careful and active listening. It is doing whatever needs to be done, and saving whatever will promote others' happiness, security and well-being.
Sometimes love hurts.
Love is a constant journey to what others need. It must be attentive, caring and open, both to what others say and to what others cannot say.
Love says no with empathy and great compassion.
Love is firm, but when needed it must be tender.
When others have tried and failed, love is the hand in your moments of discouragement and disappointment.
Love is reliable.
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
Life
well i am back and i am ispired i havent posted in a while, i have been down and out recently , lacking inspiration.....so here is a little something that got me back on my feet ...been having problems with my friends and family so this kind of made sense when i saw it ....
"the only people you need in your life
are those that prove they need you in theirs"
Wednesday, February 4, 2009
life
y does everything has to be so complicated
y the heartache in the world ??i think that i might understand from the many inspirational blogs, that i have read that its to make you appreciate what you have, however little it might be, but its too much.anyway got so many things to do, work , my driving lessons-that's not going so well, and school,
y the heartache in the world ??i think that i might understand from the many inspirational blogs, that i have read that its to make you appreciate what you have, however little it might be, but its too much.anyway got so many things to do, work , my driving lessons-that's not going so well, and school,
Tuesday, February 3, 2009
Hi all , just to start today with some positive insights , here is a little , shall i say words to inspire
Remember to always say what you mean
if you love someone, tell them
Dont be afraid to express your feelings
Reach out and tell someone what they mean to you
because when you decide its the right time
it might be too late
Remember to always say what you mean
if you love someone, tell them
Dont be afraid to express your feelings
Reach out and tell someone what they mean to you
because when you decide its the right time
it might be too late
Monday, February 2, 2009
Once upon a time, there was an island where all the feelings lived:
Happiness, Sadness, Knowledge, and all of the others including Love.
One day it was announced to the feelings that the island would sink, so all repaired their boats and left. Love was the only one who stayed. Love wanted to persevere until the last possible moment. When the island was almost sinking, Love decided to ask for help. Richness was passing by Love in a grand boat. Love said, "Richness, can you take me with you?" Richness answered, "No, I can't.. There is a lot of gold and silver in my boat. There is no place here for you." Love decided to ask Vanity who was also passing by in a beautiful vessel, Vanity, please help me!" "I can't help you Love. You are all wet and might damage my boat," Vanity answered. Sadness was close by so Love asked for help, "Sadness, let me go with you." "Oh...Love, I am so sad that I need to be by myself!" Happiness passed by Love too, but she was so happy that she did not even hear when Love called her!
Suddenly, there was a voice, "Come Love, I will take you." It was an elder. Love felt so blessed and overjoyed that he even forgot to ask the elder her name. When they arrived at dry land, the elder went her way. Love, realizing how much he owed the elder, asked Knowledge, another elder, "Who helped me?" "It was Time," Knowledge answered. "Time?" asked Love, "But why did Time help me?" Knowledge smiled with deep Wisdom and answered,
"Because only Time is capable of understanding how great Love is."
Happiness, Sadness, Knowledge, and all of the others including Love.
One day it was announced to the feelings that the island would sink, so all repaired their boats and left. Love was the only one who stayed. Love wanted to persevere until the last possible moment. When the island was almost sinking, Love decided to ask for help. Richness was passing by Love in a grand boat. Love said, "Richness, can you take me with you?" Richness answered, "No, I can't.. There is a lot of gold and silver in my boat. There is no place here for you." Love decided to ask Vanity who was also passing by in a beautiful vessel, Vanity, please help me!" "I can't help you Love. You are all wet and might damage my boat," Vanity answered. Sadness was close by so Love asked for help, "Sadness, let me go with you." "Oh...Love, I am so sad that I need to be by myself!" Happiness passed by Love too, but she was so happy that she did not even hear when Love called her!
Suddenly, there was a voice, "Come Love, I will take you." It was an elder. Love felt so blessed and overjoyed that he even forgot to ask the elder her name. When they arrived at dry land, the elder went her way. Love, realizing how much he owed the elder, asked Knowledge, another elder, "Who helped me?" "It was Time," Knowledge answered. "Time?" asked Love, "But why did Time help me?" Knowledge smiled with deep Wisdom and answered,
"Because only Time is capable of understanding how great Love is."
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